INTERNATIONAL WHORES DAY 2018
There once was a time when I didn’t identify as a Sex Worker. But then I woke up one day and realized, All the money I earn, Which...
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Valerie Stunning
- Apr 19, 2018
- 2 min
Projection, Perfection & Pedestals
It seems like most of us out here in the Sex Worker internet-vortex, are just trying to make some noise, Celebrating what we love,...
Valerie Stunning
- Mar 1, 2018
- 2 min
Side Hustle Salute
Cheers to all you Queens investing serious time, energy and money in a side hustle that you plan to one day replace your main hustle. ...
Valerie Stunning
- Feb 21, 2018
- 1 min
$$$. What Came, Went & Got Stacked (Tax Season)
Over the past few days I’ve been doing the deep dive into some scary shit. My finances. Every year around this time (Tax Season ) I sit...
Valerie Stunning
- Jan 26, 2018
- 2 min
Calling All Strippers:
OUR JOB IS REAL. OUR WORK IS VALID. and WE DESERVE FAIR & SAFE WORKING CONDITIONS. It is not a luxury to have our safety come before the...
Valerie Stunning
- Jan 18, 2018
- 2 min
Womens March: DO BETTER
This past weekend, on the anniversary of the inaugural Womens March, I joined millions of women and our allies in calling to attention...
Valerie Stunning
- Dec 4, 2017
- 3 min
To Fuck Or Not Fuck The Ageist Bullshit?
“Hey, two questions! 1st- Do you have any secrets for keeping your body in the amazing shape that it’s in?? 2nd- So I just turned 30...
Valerie Stunning
- Nov 18, 2017
- 3 min
The Hustle-Slump Blues
“I feel like I’ve been getting caught in a web of negativity, between sad customers, angry dancers, incompetent staff and it kiiiillllls...
Valerie Stunning
- Oct 28, 2017
- 2 min
HOW TO DRINK ALL DAY & MAKE IT RAIN ALL NIGHT (A Patrons Guide):
* I posted a nearly identical version of this back on St. Patricks Day (please fill in appropriate holiday references) after recalling...
Valerie Stunning
- Oct 1, 2017
- 1 min
YOU. OWE. THEM. NOTHING.
Aside from the agreed upon Dances/VIP Time for X amount of $$$ at the club's advertised level of nudity... YOU. OWE. THEM. NOTHING....
Valerie Stunning
- Sep 18, 2017
- 4 min
Self Care? Who Has Time For That Shit?
“How do you take care of your body and skin when you’re doing very physical work in heavy make-up 5-6 nights a week? I work a day job and...
Valerie Stunning
- Jul 17, 2017
- 4 min
Are You Too Old To Strip?
“So I know strippers over 30 can be hot and make money bc I’ve seen it for YEARS. However, I am myself at 28 feeling very very advanced...
Valerie Stunning
- Jun 7, 2017
- 3 min
Burn Out
I know, it's been a minute... But sometimes a girl needs a break. Part of me is dying to share with you the adventuresome details about...
Valerie Stunning
- May 16, 2017
- 3 min
Be A Bad Bitch On A Bad Night
You are not the sum of your night's earnings. I REPEAT, You are not the sum of your night's earnings. Our validity as bad bitches may...
Valerie Stunning
- Apr 26, 2017
- 3 min
How to tell your boo you're a Stripper
“I just told a guy I’ve been dating for 2 months about my job as a stripper. It’s not something I normally share and I wanted to wait to...
Valerie Stunning
- Apr 4, 2017
- 2 min
Honesty & The Champagne Room
Perhaps it's the current political climate? Perhaps it's the evolution of my work persona hybridizing with my off duty self? Perhaps it's...
Valerie Stunning
- Mar 28, 2017
- 4 min
Stripping Vs. Burlesque
“My boyfriend is very supportive when it comes to me doing burlesque but Hates that I want to be a stripper. He says he doesn’t like it...
Valerie Stunning
- Mar 3, 2017
- 2 min
How To Ace Your Stripper Hustle
Congratulations! You've been successfully showing up for at least 6 months and have officially reached Baby Stripper status. There have...
Valerie Stunning
- Feb 24, 2017
- 1 min
WHERE THE HELL ARE THE OG STRIPPER RAN STRIP CLUBS?!
Why, in countless cities across FOUR countries, have I only danced in THREE clubs that had female managers and ZERO that were owned by...
Valerie Stunning
- Feb 12, 2017
- 1 min
Birthday Broadisms
NEARLY 6 YEARS AGO, bout a week after my 26th birthday, on a warm summers day (yes, DAY) I showed up to work my very first stripper shift...