Valerie StunningJul 28, 20212 minJersey grit... When you grow up in the part of New Jersey I grew up in, the NYC skyline is inescapable. Brimming with all it’s hyperbolized promise,...
Valerie StunningJul 24, 20192 minLap Dance DiatribeA smug arms dealer in town for a trade show (balls deep in single malts & bad cocaine) once mansplained his theory on success as I dry...
Valerie StunningJun 29, 20192 minThe Best RevengeBeyonce once said, the best revenge is your paper. I disagree. The best revenge is how you redistribute your paper AFTER you’ve invested...
Valerie StunningFeb 12, 20192 minFrom Fakin It To Makin It. (Birthday Musings)Today your favorite Creamstress celebrates another twerk around the sun. And in honor of my favorite day of the year, I wrote myself this...
Valerie StunningJan 19, 20192 minSelf ActivismShout out to everyone who repped inclusivity and intersectionality at Womens’ Marches/Rallies around the world today. I did not...
Valerie StunningJan 1, 20191 minFuck A New Year’s Resolution.Because lets be real, If there’s ever a day to reflect/honor all we’ve learned & accomplished in a year and then set intentions for how...
Valerie StunningDec 13, 20181 minTHINGS I’M SO FUCKING OVERDiscovering self proclaimed allies are really only interested in the “philanthropic” or “edgy” street cred they receive from their...
Valerie StunningApr 19, 20182 minProjection, Perfection & PedestalsIt seems like most of us out here in the Sex Worker internet-vortex, are just trying to make some noise, Celebrating what we love,...
Valerie StunningMar 1, 20182 minSide Hustle SaluteCheers to all you Queens investing serious time, energy and money in a side hustle that you plan to one day replace your main hustle. ...
Valerie StunningFeb 21, 20181 min$$$. What Came, Went & Got Stacked (Tax Season)Over the past few days I’ve been doing the deep dive into some scary shit. My finances. Every year around this time (Tax Season ) I sit...
Valerie StunningJan 18, 20182 minWomens March: DO BETTERThis past weekend, on the anniversary of the inaugural Womens March, I joined millions of women and our allies in calling to attention...
Valerie StunningJun 7, 20173 minBurn OutI know, it's been a minute... But sometimes a girl needs a break. Part of me is dying to share with you the adventuresome details about...
Valerie StunningFeb 12, 20171 minBirthday BroadismsNEARLY 6 YEARS AGO, bout a week after my 26th birthday, on a warm summers day (yes, DAY) I showed up to work my very first stripper shift...
Valerie StunningJan 22, 20171 minNASTY WOMEN NO ONE HERE ON TEAM CONSENTING SEX WORKER IS PRETENDING THE DARK SIDE DOESN'T EXIST. WHAT WE'RE ASKING IS THAT YOU ACKNOWLEDGE: WE...
Valerie StunningJan 19, 20172 minNASTY & PROUD There's so much I want to say about the Women's March, but I'm still processing ALL of the emotions and weight of such a monumental...
Valerie StunningMar 10, 20161 minWho's The Real Bitch? A Think Pieceor you, throwing a temper tantrum, because the woman you don't know walking by wouldn't give you attention when you demanded her to.