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Valerie Stunning
- Jul 24, 2019
- 2 min
Lap Dance Diatribe
A smug arms dealer in town for a trade show (balls deep in single malts & bad cocaine) once mansplained his theory on success as I dry...
Valerie Stunning
- Jun 29, 2019
- 2 min
The Best Revenge
Beyonce once said, the best revenge is your paper. I disagree. The best revenge is how you redistribute your paper AFTER you’ve invested...
Valerie Stunning
- Feb 12, 2019
- 2 min
From Fakin It To Makin It. (Birthday Musings)
Today your favorite Creamstress celebrates another twerk around the sun. And in honor of my favorite day of the year, I wrote myself this...
Valerie Stunning
- Jan 19, 2019
- 2 min
Self Activism
Shout out to everyone who repped inclusivity and intersectionality at Womens’ Marches/Rallies around the world today. I did not...
Valerie Stunning
- Jan 1, 2019
- 1 min
Fuck A New Year’s Resolution.
Because lets be real, If there’s ever a day to reflect/honor all we’ve learned & accomplished in a year and then set intentions for how...
Valerie Stunning
- Dec 13, 2018
- 1 min
THINGS I’M SO FUCKING OVER
Discovering self proclaimed allies are really only interested in the “philanthropic” or “edgy” street cred they receive from their...
Valerie Stunning
- Apr 19, 2018
- 2 min
Projection, Perfection & Pedestals
It seems like most of us out here in the Sex Worker internet-vortex, are just trying to make some noise, Celebrating what we love,...
Valerie Stunning
- Mar 1, 2018
- 2 min
Side Hustle Salute
Cheers to all you Queens investing serious time, energy and money in a side hustle that you plan to one day replace your main hustle. ...
Valerie Stunning
- Feb 21, 2018
- 1 min
$$$. What Came, Went & Got Stacked (Tax Season)
Over the past few days I’ve been doing the deep dive into some scary shit. My finances. Every year around this time (Tax Season ) I sit...
Valerie Stunning
- Jan 18, 2018
- 2 min
Womens March: DO BETTER
This past weekend, on the anniversary of the inaugural Womens March, I joined millions of women and our allies in calling to attention...
Valerie Stunning
- Jun 7, 2017
- 3 min
Burn Out
I know, it's been a minute... But sometimes a girl needs a break. Part of me is dying to share with you the adventuresome details about...
Valerie Stunning
- Feb 12, 2017
- 1 min
Birthday Broadisms
NEARLY 6 YEARS AGO, bout a week after my 26th birthday, on a warm summers day (yes, DAY) I showed up to work my very first stripper shift...
Valerie Stunning
- Jan 22, 2017
- 1 min
NASTY WOMEN
NO ONE HERE ON TEAM CONSENTING SEX WORKER IS PRETENDING THE DARK SIDE DOESN'T EXIST. WHAT WE'RE ASKING IS THAT YOU ACKNOWLEDGE: WE...
Valerie Stunning
- Jan 19, 2017
- 2 min
NASTY & PROUD
There's so much I want to say about the Women's March, but I'm still processing ALL of the emotions and weight of such a monumental...
Valerie Stunning
- Mar 10, 2016
- 1 min
Who's The Real Bitch? A Think Piece
or you, throwing a temper tantrum, because the woman you don't know walking by wouldn't give you attention when you demanded her to.